By Renee Pullman

With divorce for men it is reality that in 2 out of three cases the wife will file and the man will be served divorce papers. This is a strategic advantage for her because many times the judge will grant motions in this filing. You may be accused of abuse and put out of your home.

If this has happened to you take heart, it is only a temporary set back if you act quickly and in the right way. Being a man, you are at a disadvantage, in most courts presumption goes in favor of the wife. Now you have a second burden in that she has filed first. At this point it is probably best for you to have an attorney. This is not the end of your participation in your divorce however. There is no one who will care more about what happens next and in the future than you. Don’t trust this just to your divorce attorney. These people are busy and things will go undone. You need to learn the divorce tactics and strategies that are being used against you, and you need to learn what needs to be done to counter them and manage your case. Charges made against you need to be countered. You cannot let untruth stand unanswered.

Here are three tips that can save you not only a great deal of money but that can take some of the pain away from the divorce process.

1. When you look for your attorney be aware that women lawyers can be some of the most aggressive when fighting for their clients. So just because your wife has waged war against you don’t think you need a man to counter her.
2. Keep your head in the game. Her attorney has attacked and the purpose, beyond strategic advantage is to get you off-balance and angry. When you are angry you are more apt to do stupid things. These things will not go well for you in court and could wind you up in jail. She and her attorney will probably celebrate that achievement. So if pain and anger wiles up inside of you, you have to be ready to counter it with something. Take no physical action but direct all of this negative energy into learning the divorce process and what is possible to attain.
3. Expect a positive result. One thing to realize is you really don’t want her. Sometimes marriages end amicably but more often there are issues and betrayal that create negativity between you and your wife. This can hurt and make you think the world has ended but I promise you it has not. I promise you that there will be a good life for you on the other side of this divorce if you maintain expectancy and manage your case. If things begin to weigh on you, take a moment and go forward in time and see your great new life on the other side of this thing. Remember that you will be bringing all the things you need from this marriage to help you achieve it. See it, believe it. Wayne Dyer said, “you must believe it before you see it.” Believe it this is some of the most sound advice you will ever get.

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By Michael Griffin

How is your future vision? How well can you see the things that are to happen in your life? Does that sound like a crazy idea?

Napoleon Hill, who was perhaps the greatest success writer of the 20Th century had this to say:

Thoughts are things.

Wayne Dyer, who wrote many success books, put it this way:

You will see it when you believe it.

Wallace Wattles, who wrote “The Science of Getting Rich,” the book behind the movie “The Secret” put it like this:

By thought, the thing you want is brought to you; by action you receive it.

When the mind is open and expecting a thing held in vision it finds new connections and notices things and ideas related to the thing. If you allow your mind to put these ideas and observations together, it will begin to suggest things for you to do. Things that may or may not seem related to the vision. But these things, when integrated this way, will begin to form and bring to you the object of your future vision.

If you want anything — you must first think it. How can we think of the good things we want if our mind is polluted with all the negativity around. Are you a news junkie? Most of what is in the news and on the news channels is what other people want you to think about something that has happened. You don’t need that to overshadow your life. You need to form clear ideas and visions without the interpretation of others. When you create a future vision you must care for it and nurture it while you are bringing it about by holding the vision.

Some have described how this process works using quantum physics. Others relate it to an intelligence in the universe: that the universe contains a thinking substance that produces in kind after the pure thought held in it. Wallace Wattles, quoted above, is one of those who put forth this theory. I don’t think these two theories exclude each other so just take the one that is easiest on your head and begin to play with future vision.

Hold the vision of what you want in your mind with as pure a thought as you can. Practice this morning and night and write the ideas that spin off, write down the plans that come to mind — then act on these things.

Your vision creates the result, your actions bring it into your hands. This is what Wattles is saying.

Whether you have read “The Science of Getting Rich” or not you’ll want to experience it in a new way. You’ll want to experience it as delivered and interpeted by Bob Proctor with some help from Michael Beckwith and Jack Canfield. You will learn to use The Science of Getting Rich as your own secret weapon and as your key to success and creation.

I’m Mike Griffin, and I invite you to learn about these success secret weapons by visiting: http://therealmikegriffin.com/sgrp/

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